Another similarity between us is that we have very few friends. In general, you and i judge people very easily. We try to simplify human beings and attach the tag of good or bad to them. But we are all grey! Noone is good or bad. In particular, we have to keep in mind that that people are not always trying to attack us. Everyone is having a hard time. Everyone has their own way of dealing with situations amd we might not always agree to them. So what? Its their life....they get to choose what they do. Luckily so do you and i. Personally, i chose to look beyond what displeases me in a person. I chose and am trying hard to accept the different shades of human nature and when i sometimes succeed, my life becomes so much more colourful. Going out and meeting people is scary but it brings me closer to understanding how i would like to live my life for now. You and i, i'm sure, would go beyond the closed room that our mind is. Lets see who reaches there first!
Finally, i would like to talk about my mother and your wife but above all, this individual called Nandini. Do we not both love and admire how wonderful she is? Do we not both love to be loved by her, taken care of by her? Yes both of us are nodding. Let us agree on another important fact too, then. She works very hard and tries her best to keep all of us going. She never puts herself before others and neglects herself tremendously in order to make people smile. You might say that even you did that. Yes, i appreciate and recognise that. I am lucky to have both of you in a certain way and i try to imitate your actions when it comes to helping. Now that we are talking about helping others, i must point out to you that she is sad and distressed and needs our help. She has been fighting for too long. Now we need to fight for her. 55years she has led without thinking of her own desires. She has sacrificed too much. Let us make her happy. Let us encourage her to do what she wants. Let us make her smile. This is an easy job for us because due to her nature she is already open to many activities and new things in life. She has started giving up and we cannot let that happen. You and i must make her believe that it is her own life and she has the right to do what she wants as long as she doesnt harm anybody. We both know that she would never hurt a fly. If we become insecure or afraid, we must ask ourselves, didnt she prove to us already how much love for us she carries in her heart?
By now you must be thinking that i am too biased towards her and see no flaw. Let me tell you a secret. I have been hurt by her too, many times. She isn't perfect, just like us. But love goes beyond imperfections. And so does maturity.
I am sorry i had to choose my mother over you. But i am sad that i had to choose at all. I hope you live and let live.
Regards,
The lost daughter of a father.
Finally, i would like to talk about my mother and your wife but above all, this individual called Nandini. Do we not both love and admire how wonderful she is? Do we not both love to be loved by her, taken care of by her? Yes both of us are nodding. Let us agree on another important fact too, then. She works very hard and tries her best to keep all of us going. She never puts herself before others and neglects herself tremendously in order to make people smile. You might say that even you did that. Yes, i appreciate and recognise that. I am lucky to have both of you in a certain way and i try to imitate your actions when it comes to helping. Now that we are talking about helping others, i must point out to you that she is sad and distressed and needs our help. She has been fighting for too long. Now we need to fight for her. 55years she has led without thinking of her own desires. She has sacrificed too much. Let us make her happy. Let us encourage her to do what she wants. Let us make her smile. This is an easy job for us because due to her nature she is already open to many activities and new things in life. She has started giving up and we cannot let that happen. You and i must make her believe that it is her own life and she has the right to do what she wants as long as she doesnt harm anybody. We both know that she would never hurt a fly. If we become insecure or afraid, we must ask ourselves, didnt she prove to us already how much love for us she carries in her heart?
By now you must be thinking that i am too biased towards her and see no flaw. Let me tell you a secret. I have been hurt by her too, many times. She isn't perfect, just like us. But love goes beyond imperfections. And so does maturity.
I am sorry i had to choose my mother over you. But i am sad that i had to choose at all. I hope you live and let live.
Regards,
The lost daughter of a father.
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